I
HAVE NEVER BEEN TO A BIG family reunion affair. For myself, my family is not
big. I got a rare and difficult-sounding last name and a middle name that is
equally uncommon. On my father’s side, we can count only of a few
households. On my mother’s side, much
less. If I were to gauge on these, I could never be a politician. Not my cup of
tea though even if I have the numbers. But my late grandfather was a rare exception.
However,
my wife belonged to a big family in Mindanao with ties that originated from
Northern Cebu. Her late grandfather was formerly a mayor of two different
municipalities there, her uncles and cousins joined local politics because they
can rely on their big numbers. The problem with politics is it alienates you
from family ties and you see brother running against a sister and a nephew
against his uncle. Such is politics and it is ugly.
Big
families have reunion affairs and it is common for political rivals who carried
the same surnames or from the same parents trying to evade from each other
which is quite impossible to do considering the limited space of where the
event is held. In other families, family reunions became disruptive affairs and
fragment into factions from within but, in my wife’s case, all behaved civilly
as if all axes of discord were disposed away.
Rightly
so, for they are all Seventh Day Adventists and they lived like one, unlike
some who practice hypocrisy in their lives. I am a Roman Catholic, a renewed
one, and I do not criticize my own religion but the faults of my fellow
believers. Anyway, this is not about religion but how one behaved in such big
family affairs and in their everyday lives. Me and my wife co-exist in one roof
and we do not talk about our faiths and start a debate but we strengthen each
other instead.
Going
back to that reunion of my wife’s family, we set sail along with our grandson
Gabriel to Ozamis City on the night of May 3, 2017 to attend that. We were met
by Ayen Abuton and Michelle Mantos, my wife’s nieces, the following day, May 4,
and we went home with them to Mahayag, Zamboanga del Sur. We were there for a
week-long vacation last Christmas 2015 and we will stay again here for a day of
rest.
On
May 5, we set out early from Mahayag to Pagadian City and then to Diplahan,
Zamboanga Sibugay, where the two-day Mantos Family Reunion would be held. The
hosts would be my wife’s first cousins: Mathusalem and Ludy Mantos and Edward
and Feninah Mantos. From the highway, we reach the farming village of Guinoman
and there is a festive mood in a big house. The usual greetings and hugs
proceed normally.
Although
we were assured of sleeping spaces, I opt to bring my own hammock and taffeta
sheet and fixed it in a corner so I could give my space to others. Slowly, more
of her relatives arrived from Misamis Occidental, Misamis Oriental, Lanao del
Norte, Bukidnon, Surigao del Sur, Davao del Norte, Davao del Sur, Davao
Oriental and South Cotabato. Those from the Davao provinces arrived on a big
dump truck.
Meanwhile,
Mantos cousins Ike, Dodo and Jay invited me to go along with them to
Mathusalem’s farm. We rode on a cart pulled by a Kubota L3608 farm tractor. It
was an enjoyable ride, scary at times as it passes by a narrow path where there
is a steep slope on one side. It crossed streams and climbed up a steep bank,
its big wheels digging in deep, carrying the cart through. A poor man’s version
of ATV but much expensive. I laugh at the small description of the tractor under
its brand name: Spectro Shuttle.
The
farm is beside a stream with fish ponds being dried up. Mathusalem is talking
with a soldier. There is a military detachment nearby. I got introduced to his
son, a port authority police officer, and we had a lengthy talk. Contents of
Fundador Brandy are served in a wide circle through two glasses that ran
clockwise and counterclockwise. Beef is being butchered and cooked in a big
cauldron over open-pit fire. Along the middle of the stream, I watched three
boys on a sled pulled by a carabao where another boy held the bridles.
I
love the sight of the simple provincial life, to include the Spectro Shuttle
driven back to the village center. After a very generous meal of pochero
(beef stew) and rice, I need to stretch out by taking a short walk beside the
stream. I stopped to observe a man and a boy casting their lines on the water.
The man had with him a small basket which is half-filled with juvenile tilapia
and another type of fish. He was good at choosing the best part of the stream
which gave him a good catch.
I
go back to the farmhouse and the rounds are undulating as ever as I had left
them minutes ago. By mid-afternoon, we walk the distance back to the village
center and to the reunion. The parking spaces are now filled up and my wife’s
kin began to populate the wide lawn. Monobloc chairs kept them in place while
some pitched tents and others sat on cheap laminated-nylon sheets on the
ground. The program begins to start and my wife led me to the back to take a
meal. After that, I proceed to my waiting hammock and slept.
I
woke up in the morning of May 6. I missed the rest of the program yesterday. My
wife is overlooking the food preparations so I passed to her my Victorinox
Trailmaster. I left her when Dr. Tuesday and husband Jun Canugao wanted to take
a bath on a local resort nearby. I accompanied them with Gabriel in tow. Their
pick up truck could not go further and we have to walk the 150 meters distance.
There is a warm pool and there is another warmer pool. Steams rose from the
pool surface on this cold morning.
We
immersed in the warmest pool and I could feel my balls boiling. I looked around
how such things appeared? I could see the flat rice fields ringed by mountains.
The wide Guinoman valley is a crater of an ancient volcano. It is a very remote
village rich in natural resources like sand and gravel, silver and gold.
Bandits used to harass small miners and farmers here with revolutionary tax and
food and that is why there are military detachments.
We
left the warm pools, going back to Mathusalem’s house on foot. The morning
program is about to start and I changed into a new set of clothes. I reeked of
sulfur! A church service began and I, a Catholic, joined the SDA worshippers.
After the service, lunch was served. At the back of the house, I assist my wife
with her chores. My Victorinox remained sharp as ever. Then two farm workers
arrived bringing with them a big bucket full of tilapia. Along that is a foot-long
mudfish (haluan) and a fresh-water eel (bais).
I
watched a boy deftly slicing the belly of each tilapia with a bolo like a
professional. With a small knife, it took me a long time to slice into bite
cuts on the single mudfish. With the slippery eel I gave up the Trailmaster for
a bigger blade. Chopping is much better. Jay cooked both in brine and I waited.
I would not trade these two for red meat at the moment. I missed these two and
it soon would be a delightful meal.
Reclining
on a chair, Jay gave me a cold bottle of beer. I watched Dodo supervise the
roasting of two pigs (inasal) on an adjoining lot far from the rest of
their kin. My wife grabbed my hand and asked me to accompany her to a waterfall
located in Mathusalem’s property. Gabriel came along and Ayen too with little
Kelly. We all settled in the cart of the Spectro Shuttle as it lurched forward
on the road, crossing a long bridge and stopped at the trailhead.
From
there we walked over the mud dikes between ricefields and around teethered carabaos
with their young. It is a difficult walk with all the ladies and little ones,
balancing along the very narrow path, sometimes with gaps of a meter in
between. The ground shifted where it is soft and you have to move fast else you
slide downward to the softer mud on rice paddy. A nasty thought.
When
we reached firmer ground, it was easy navigating along the contour of the
terrain. It was not difficult terrain but you cross streams and walk among
marang, durian and rubber trees that were harvested. I saw something that
aroused my interest: hieroglyphics on rocks. It could not be! It was an
engraving done between 50 to 100 years ago. A gold trail, perhaps!
People
made their fortunes from this place for so many years digging for gold and
silver. The mines are now abandoned after the mother lode had been found and
there is nothing left. What is left are legends and it can still be sold to the
gullible and to the greedy ones who wanted to make it rich quick. I loved
legends but I just deposit it in tales. Mere conjectures.
The
waterfall is about twenty feet high and the water cascade to a deep pool.
Beside the chasm is an old wooden structure where someone attempted to harness
the power of water with a treadmill. Textbook design except that the penstock
is missing. Maybe it was abandoned when electricity eventually reached
Guinoman. What if it had indeed been operating successfully? With uninterrupted
power it could power a small mine day and night.
After
an hour of overwatch, the bathers were done. We made our way back to the rice
paddies. Gabriel fell from the already weakened path and mud are all over him.
Poor Gabriel. We reach an open well and Gabe took a second bath. From the trail
we walk back to the big house passing by an abandoned house that used to belong
to Ludy’s family. It has an empty swimming pool. It may have been a small
resort in the past.
We
reach the house at an hour before dusk. The walking have made me see and
appreciate the beautiful parts of Mindanao where few outsiders considered visiting.
I have long heard the tales of Guinoman since the ‘90s when I ventured to do a
little farm business in Mahayag. It would have been different then. Much wild
and much dangerous. How could people survive there is testament to their
resoluteness to carve a livelihood as farmer, miner, hunter, fisherman, trader
or even as a preacher.
We
prepared ourselves for a long night ride to Mahayag. My wife had a grand time
meeting again and reconnecting with her relatives. She is now a bit
sophisticated and has now an Android phone. She accepts friend requests on her
Facebook account and there are eighteen pending ones. I got my pictures and I
got my good memories of the Spectro Shuttle.
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